Being love-filled and beautiful is almost unconquerable. Love absorbs the hard blows of rigid fists. love surrounds, softens and tires violence and force. If you are confronted, bullied or intimidated while expressing your voice of reason, remember this protective strategy be beautiful. Being love-filled and beautiful is one of the most powerful defenses that one can employ. Imagine that you are a beautiful and unique flower growing in life's garden. Most people will not intentionally step on a beautiful flower. If you are walking through the garden and you see the beautiful flowers, you will walk around them to avoid destroying their delicate beauty. Even most "mean people" and "bad people," otherwise known as people in pain and crisis, try to avoid the destruction of beauty by their own hand. They recognize beauty and secretly wish more of their own beauty was dominant. And even when the rare soul who enjoys trampling and crushing the beautiful flowers comes along, they quickly discover that there are many gardeners who tend life's garden, and these gardeners do not like people stepping on the beautiful flowers. A beautiful person is protected like a beautiful flower in a garden, which many gardeners tend. You do not have to do anything to defend yourself in life; just be beautiful and life will defend you.
If you find some one who make you smile.. Who checkup on you often to see, that you are ok...!! Who watches out for you..and want very best for you... Don't let them go..!!!!! Keep them close and don't take them for granted... People are like that hard to find..!!!
You have to get clear in your present life clear of the junk from your past. When you are laying in bed trying to relax, how many voices and people are in there with you? When you are thinking about making a move forward in your life that you should have made years ago, what scary memories or fears start running you down? You may not need an exorcist, but those negative voices need to get going, and now. Clear out all of those doubts and fears. Let the past be the past. It's time. You need some breathing room to think. Create some clear space and then you will know exactly what to do..
There is nothing you will ever do that is more important than being honest about who you really are. As crazy as it may seem, most of us are not who we think we are; we are someone else's ideas. Two words: cultural conditioning. Our identities are tremendously warped and distorted by yesterday's trauma and tomorrow's expectations. The struggle to excavate your true, authentic self from beneath the mountain of conditioning and ridiculous expectation is the epic struggle of your lifetime. Most people are buried alive in a cultural and familial avalanche from the moment they are born, and are never seen or heard from again. Your number one mission in life is to be who you were intended to be. Nothing is more miserable than living a muted existence of inauthenticity. All pain in life comes from suppressing your true identity. You must begin to understand that this is your life; no one else's! This is your precious, wonderful, unique and brief moment in life! Please, I beg you, to at least be honest with yourself and be who you are. If you can't be who you really are then what is life but an unbearable lie? Refuse to be coerced. Resist the suppressive pressure to contract, and instead expand in defiance. Resist and declare that you are alive; you are you, and you are unmasterable and beautifully broken in a fixed world.
There are times in our lives when we finally get out of the funk and fog of our past just far enough, that a clearing starts to take place in our minds. Maybe we begin to believe we can and should do something we have wanted to do for a very long time, where the impossible starts to look possible. It could be going back to school or turning a hobby into a business. Perhaps we want to leave a relationship that has lingered on too long and is hurting everyone. It could be a risky career change or leaving your town to live a new adventure somewhere else that is calling to you. It could be overcoming an addiction, asking forgiveness or rekindling a broken relationship. When the clearing starts to happen, and we begin to see the path of possibility in ourselves widening, we often need help to make the journey. Maybe we need a little extra money or a place to stay where we are safe. Perhaps we need some tools, favors or just some moral support and encouragement. In moments like this, we may turn to our friends and family, only to discover that the community of people who have known us the longest can't see the same clearing or vision. The clearing is often only happening for us, and those who love us most cannot see or believe in our nascent visions, because they can only see yesterday. But if you have a deep desire to move forward, a way is being prepared for you.
The snow glows white on the mountain tonight... Not a footprint to be seen... A kingdom of isolation.. And it looks like I'm queen.. The wind is howling like this swirling storm inside.. Couldn't keep in, heaven knows i tried...
Don't let them in Don't let them see.. Be the good girl you always have to be.. concel, don't feel Don't let them know Well, now they know Let it go.. Let it go Cant hold it back anymore... Let it go Let it go Turn away and slam the door.. I don't care.. What they are going to say !! Let the storm rage on The cold never bothered me anyway... Its funny how some distance Make everything seem small... And the fear that once controlled me Can't get to me at all... Its time to see what i can do To test the limits and break through.. No right, no wrong, no rules for me.. I am free Let it go.. Let it go I am one with the wind and sky Let it go Let it go You never see me cry.. Here i stand and here i'll stay Let the storm rage on My power flurries through the air into the ground My soul is spiraling in frozen fractals all around And one thought crystallizes like an icy blast I m never going back. the past is in the past Let it go Let it go And i'll rise like the break of dawn Let it go Let it go The perfect girl is gone.. Here i stand in the light of day Let the storm rage on The cold never bothered me anyway..!!!
Despite what you may believe, you can disappoint people and still be good enough... You can make mistakes and still be capable and talented.... You can let people down and still be worthwhile and deserving of love..... Everyone has disappointed someone they care about.... Everyone messes up, lets people down, and makes mistakes.... Not because we're inadequate or fundamentally inept, but because we're imperfect and fundamentally human.... Expecting anything different is setting yourself up for failure.... That is Life....!!!!!!!
Positive attitudes are concerned with possibilities, whereas negative attitudes are concerned with what seems to be unlikely....
Where negative attitudes repel opportunities, positive attitudes open possibilities.... Bias can work for or against you.... Positive attitudes qualify you for positive experiences. ... Hopefully and devoutly focus on your greater possibilities..... Hopeful thoughts needn't be limitless in scope..... Any good is good enough..... Positive thinking needn't be thought of as selfish or exclusively serving the self.... When you live positively it is impossible to not also be living for something greater than yourself, because when you transform yourself, your change impacts the lives of many other people for the rest of your life......!!!!!!!!
Learn to love being told you are wrong or being insulted. Every insult is an opportunity... Being insulted offers you an opportunity to practice decency and having a non-response internally... When we are easily upset it is because we are internally unstable and unrefined spiritually... Any defensiveness is a sign of failure... You can't move forward if you are defensive... If you do not like a certain behavior in others, look within yourself to find the roots of what discomforts you... The conflicts we have with the outside world are often conflicts we have within ourselves... Criticism is no threat to your self-esteem or identity, but rather informs you... You can't see clearly through defensiveness... You can get to a place where you see clearly..that place is zero defensiveness.... An intelligent person is never afraid or ashamed to find errors in his understanding of things... The best practice is to be around people who absolutely disagree... Grace in conflict is a study in love....
love surrounds, softens and tires violence and force. If you are confronted, bullied or intimidated while expressing your voice of reason, remember this protective strategy be beautiful. 
love surrounds, softens and tires violence and force. If you are confronted, bullied or intimidated while expressing your voice of reason, remember this protective strategy be beautiful. 
